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Dyadic Attendancy: How Enneagram 3, 6, and 9 Hold Self and Other at the Same Time
How Enneagram 3, 6, and 9 use dyadic attention—and what happens when balance is lost.
External Attendancy: How Enneagram 2, 7, and 8 Direct Attention Outward
How Enneagram 2, 7, and 8 use external attention—and what happens when outward focus is overused.
Internal Attendancy: How Enneagram 1, 4, and 5 Direct Attention Inward
How Enneagram 1, 4, and 5 use internal attention—and what happens when inward focus is overused.
Attendancy: How the Direction of Attention Shapes Enneagram Patterns
Attendancy explains how attention moves internally, externally, or dyadically—and how this shapes Enneagram patterns.
Common Enneagram Mistype: 2 vs 6
A common Enneagram mistype explained: why many women identify as Type 2 when they are actually Type 6.
Common Enneagram Mistype: 4 vs 9
Why Enneagram 4 and 9 are often mistyped—and how their experience of sadness is fundamentally different.
The Three Core Needs: How They Shape Our Relationships
The Three Core Needs in Relationships: Why We Clash, Miss Each Other, and Complement One Another
The Need for Certainty: How Fear Shapes the Head Center
Certainty is a core human need tied to fear, planning, and the Enneagram Head center (Types 5, 6, and 7).
The Need for Bonding: How Connection Shapes the Heart Center
Bonding is a core human need tied to connection, sadness, and the Enneagram Heart center (Types 2, 3, and 4).
The Need for Agency: How Anger Shapes the Body Center
Agency is a core human need tied to autonomy, anger, and the Enneagram Body center (Types 8, 9, and 1).